To me, Human Design is the contract your soul makes with the Universe about who you came to be, what you came to do, and what karma you came to correct this lifetime around.

Human Design combines so many different schools of wisdom in one: the Hindu chakras, the Chinese iChing, conventional astrology and the kabbalistic Tree of Life – but the result is an entirely new system that’s here to realign you with exactly who you are meant to be. The most radical thing we can do for ourselves and for the collective, is be bold enough to be our real selves. We weren’t built to be all the same, and we do a disservice to our whole tribe when we hold each other to that homogeny.

We are born as our Highest Selves, naturally living our innate inclinations. But as life goes on, we are exposed to external influences (from parents, peers, school, society) that tell us to be different than what we truly are – we become conditioned out of our nature.  The journey to becoming your Highest Self is therefore not about pushing yourself to become a spiritually ‘perfect’ person, but a gentle unbecoming, or deconditioning process – coming back to your true self before the world told you how to be.

The best part is that you don’t need to make massive changes in your circumstances to make use of Human Design. “You can stay in the same job and just change the energetics of how you show up, and that changes everything,” says Zoe. “That’s what’s magical about it.”  To me it’s like reading the ‘costume’ your soul chooses to wear in this incarnation. And the more we can recognize what energies are inherently part of this costume, the more we can show up are our most authentic, happiest selves.

This world floods us with messages about who we should be in order to survive and thrive in this world – but Human Design teaches that the same advice is not correct for everybody. For example, it’s right for one person to be listening to her instincts, but not for another. One person shouldn’t be driven by a need for power and influence, and the other should.  The way I see it, it’s beautiful because there is no good and bad in Human Design, just differences – and when you accept that you are different you can really and truly accept the other for who they are too.

Our free will, when we get to know our own design better, is whether we choose to play out our inherent selves in a high-vibe or low-vibe way.

There are five main “types” in Human Design, which give us general guidance about how we should be directing our energies.  Of course, there will be more complex directions for each individual based on their chart, but this is a good place to start: 

Does this action involve someone directly receiving my gifts, my guidance, my products or my services? If it’s a yes, it needs an invitation. If not, do it if you’re into it but it ain’t that deep.
These 4 words came to me as an easy way of clearing up what needs an invitation and what doesn’t. Use them as your cheat sheet dear Projector 💛

Things you DON’T need an invitation for:
– Making said gifts, guidance, products and services available/easy for people to find (aka start your business, post on social media, build your website)
– Creating your art (so paint that piece, write, take those photos, design a piece of software, come up with a system)
– Investing in your learning (so take that course, reach out to that mentor, READ)
– Going to dinner with a friend
– Eating that slice of pineapple 🤣

Think of something you really want to happen in your life.

Now ponder:
What if there’s an easier way this could come about than what I’ve projected or calculated in my mind?

Because there is, there always is, and you don’t have to know what it is. You just have to be clear that you know it exists. SUCH a powerful message to give the Universe so it can get to work reshuffling things behind the scenes on your behalf.

This is small but don’t underestimate its power, because what it does is open up your energy to a myriad of different unfoldings, instead of keep you a slave to the linear structures and time frames that limit our ability to be all the God-like qualities we came to embody: powerful, limitless, and endlessly creative.

⭐️How you know if sharing on social media is aligned for you💫
Q. Is it normal to find posting consistently on IG normal as a projector?
A. Yes, if writing or speaking or visuals isn’t one of the gifts you’re meant to be focusing on in this lifetime.
There is so much more we can shine with! Ps this is true for everyone no matter their design. Using your energy on anything less than what you’re kick-ass at, is tiring. Because the Universe is trying to tell you, spend your time and energy doing something else honey. Certain things will reap more rewards for you than the widely accepted ways of bringing success into your life. We just have to be brave enough to believe that our road will look different than any thing else we’ve seen before.

The real you is gonna change and morph over the course of your life. Literally every day is ripe with opportunities to lean into a totally different vibe.
So I sometimes feel like figuring out who you are, is nowhere near as powerful as leaving it open to discovering who you can be.
We have to make sure that finding ourselves is more about building a connection to your needs and thoughts and feelings, rather than defining yourself to feel better about who you are, or more in control. To my mind this is where spiritual work can really just become a block in our lives.
You have all the qualities of every human being inside of you and they’re yours to play with. Instead of grabbing on to a few, explore them all.
To start doing this, think of a nice human quality that you’ve told yourself is just not ‘you’, because your ego is more comfortable not identifying with it. Is it intelligent, is it funny, is it beautiful or fun or spontaneous or kick-ass or a warrior? And then ask yourself, can I see how being a little bit more that could make my life richer?
Qualities like fun and serious, like smart and naive, strong and vulnerable – these are not a binary, they are a scale, and we are all all of them in differing areas of our lives and personas.
Opening yourself up to the idea of being so broad and big and ever changing is so freeing and power-inducing because that’s the magnificence of what it is to be a human being.

Let who you are, and who you’re becoming, stay a wondrous unknown filled with rich surprise and reward.

Stop trying to make desired outcomes happen the only way you think they can happen. There are myriads of ways a thing we want can come about, but the minute we try to logically figure out the how, we’re limiting many more options of how it could unfold. This is because our human imagination, tainted by fears and logic, is limited compared to the Universe’s, so we just can’t conceive of the paths that it can.
Sure, we can try to control it and paint a nice linear path to getting it, but what that’ll for sure do is shut down the option for life to send you a random call out of nowhere, a turn on the fast track, a surprise diversion to super stardom – all more playful and fun options that means your dreams could happen TOMORROW if we stop squeezing it into a business plan.
True surrender doesn’t mean sitting on our couch envisaging our dreams; it means we engage our energy and play with life, but we’re putting one foot in front of the other whilst being loose about it. Move forward but with joy and relaxed shoulders, not with constraint and force and need. Being excited about how much more fun the unknown is than the known.

Let’s reverse engineer this: we covet coolness because we think it’s gonna make us happy.
But you could build the coolest wardrobe, with the coolest friends, and the coolest job on earth, and still be effing miserable.
Ever been to an awesome party but no one was dancing and being irreverent because they’re all too busy looking over your shoulder as they’re talking to you?
Cool is just a concept meaning it lives in the mind, and it becomes ever more potent when there’s a collectively accepted perception of what constitutes it. But it’s not a real thing (which we can know because it changes).
Believing that there’s always something/someone cooler than you gets in the way of the coolest thing which is happiness, because happiness is in the body. It’s in the now. It’s in celebrating for no reason. It’s being silly. It’s singing in the car. It’s finding something terribly uncool kind of amusing.
In order to truly have the best life ever we have to prioritise how it feels over how it looks.
And since happiness is a feeling, it doesn’t exist anywhere but inside of you.

Let’s stop giving external things and people so much ability to tell us what the markers of a good life is. We can only ever bring it to our selves.

My Kabbalah teacher @ruthnahmias_uk used to tell me that they believe on birthdays, wedding days, and any high moments of your life, you have even more Light coming to you and through you, that you have to share it around even more than you usually do. This is one of the many perspectives I’ve loved about this ancient tradition, which is coincidentally also a huge component of Human Design.
These modalities have completely transformed my life to no less that 180 degrees and I can’t believe I get to make it my life’s work. What I’m most grateful for is actually myself – for how forgiving I am when I act out, how patient I am when I feel I’m not yet how I wanna be, how I lovingly encourage myself to keep going, and how nicely I speak to myself (most of the time). For me it’s the spiritual arts that have been my inspiration and education on how create an existence I dreamt of.
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How Responding works – for Gs and MGs
Responding means that life is sending you a constant stream of things that might please you, and when you see one you like, you should go play with it. You are dancing with the Universe.
The rules of this dance:
– ONLY once the Universe has suggested it to you. This means you can’t sit and pressure yourself to figure out what to do next and then make it happen out of nowhere. Instead, whenever you want to bring more good things into your life you’re better off telling the Universe to send you loads of suggestions, and then joyously, curiously, keeping your eyes open for where it’s trying to point you.
– You know you’ve been sent a good suggestion when you’ve had an expansive response to it, rather than a contractive response to it. This means you feel yourself get physically excited about it. In your body. You might feel yourself squeal, squirm, smile, feel pulled towards something, or just feel – I want that! Sounds like fun! Looks delicious! – A response is in your body, not your mind. This means you can’t say, “I want x because the world tells me it will get me y”. You can’t follow the end result you have to follow the golden nugget. And get comfortable not knowing where it’s gonna lead you.
Responding looks like:
– You see someone on Instagram doing something that sounds exciting to you. So you message them and tell them you love what they’re doing, or ask them for a coffee date.
– You hear a friend tell you how their friend just started this cool business and you feel – I’d love to do that kind of thing. So you start to dip your toes in, just as a fun exploration of seeing if it’s a match for your energy (ie waiting to see if it continuously excites you), making it your own.
– You hear a song on the radio that you find yourself not be able to resist dancing to – so you call all your best girlfriends to hit the dance floor tonight.
The common thread here is that all are prompted by something that has been put on your path, on purpose, and you felt a ‘yes’ to it, in your body, without being able to explain why. It didn’t come from nowhere; it was sent to you and for you.

Would I be bored getting on a long car journey, or would I be relishing the scenery around me?
Would I be choosing to stay mad at something that I’m not even gonna remember in a month, or see all our intimate human interactions, good and bad, as something I’ll cherish when I’m back to being just a soul without a body?
Would I even brush my teeth without thinking wow, this everyday human experience that fascinates every angel, every alien, is just so unfathomably good it makes me wanna burst out of my skin with joy?
If any of that sounded like a bit of an exaggeration. May I lovingly suggest that it’s not these ideas that are crazy, but that we are all a bit numb to the incredible show that’s being put on for us every day here. Mostly because we think most of it is uninteresting.
But there will come a day where we will marvel at all of it. What it was like to feel everything on our soft human skin, to have music, even to argue or wait in line, to see a sky, even one that was covered in clouds, and pouring with rain.
This question came to me last week when I was lamenting a long flight delay, and I’ve been using it to help me reframe those moments I quickly judge as uncomfortable and dull, because it brings me back to relishing it for what it can offer me.
And if I can FIND the relish in each moment of my life, I’ve built a relishable life.

What if the reason we fill our days with so much scrolling and numbing and distracting is because we’re afraid to REALLY rise?
Being big and wonderful and impactful is scary as hell, especially to so many women because we’re taught that it’s threatening, that people will maybe judge us, abandon us, love us less or deem us evil/bad people if we get it.
And since to every human being, rising to success is programmed in us to happen as naturally as breathing does – are we feeling that tug towards it inside and then just resisting it in every little way we can? Clinging on to smallness because it’s comfortable and our brains show us that at least certain people like us enough as we are?
I want to suggest that this year, if you desire so much to become your highest most powerful self, to spend less time asking what you’re doing or not doing to get there, and more time asking what you’d be afraid that would happen if you got there.
And then let me tell you this – people don’t like successful people because in history it used to be that the people who rose stepped on a hundred other people to get there, oppressed, cheated, played dirty. But if you don’t go about it with this consciousness, your success is you doing your duty as a soul. It’s you becoming big and shiny and embodying your true God-like qualities of all-loving, all-giving, magnanimous, generous, warm. Shining bright and giving life to others, just like the Sun.
It’s not about you. It’s about being in service to the light that made you.
And we’re all designed to be up there together.

For real though, let’s just own our preferences, desires and wants without needing an academic science to explain it away.
Human Design, Astrology and other tools of self-discovery can be helpful to show us the inherent traits and tendencies of our BEING, but since then we have done so much LIVING that no chart could ever describe. These best use of these tools are as training wheels, which ultimately help us come back to the authority of our own lives and remembering that we are always free to do life exactly as our soul pleases.

A shout-out to moms trying to raise your kids in a conscious way whilst also on a journey of self-development yourselves. It’s not always easy, being there for yourself whilst also giving so much to your little ones.
You're bound to have moments where you don't love your kids. Where you think maybe I wasn't built to be a mom. How do I get them out of my hair. I suck at this. I’m selfish. When I asked on my IG stories for you to share a negative thought you’ve had recently, an OVERWHELMING amount was from moms thinking these kinds of things – so I wanted to create a space for you to share your negative thoughts, to get it off your chest but also to help other moms see that its normal. We have to normalise our thoughts, good and bad, if we are to solve the mental health crisis.
So, let’s move this conversation over to Facebook, where we made a group for you called Human Design Moms (& dads).
I also created this group because all of you that are implementing your human design and your kids' HD into your parenting journey, are the experts out in the field, LIVING it. And I know you have some wisdom, some findings, and some tips to share with other parents.
I hope this space lifts you up, allows you to lift others up, and helps you remember that you are both normal and very, very special. Thank you for being here.

How to give yourself a Human Design Reading:
1. Imagine all the things you’d secretly hope a reader to see in your chart.
Think of what you’d like he/she to say your future can be like
What natural gifts and talents make you powerful, and how when you use them you’ll have your dream life with very little effort
How you’ll bring so much value to the world when you’re doing what’s in your Magic Lane
Imagine them confidently painting the picture for you, as if you doing it is the easiest, most fun thing in the world.
2. Realise that the things you secretly hope to be confirmed/validated by someone else have been planted in you on purpose – God is dropping clues on your life’s direction, and giving you ease around the things you’re meant to do more of as the means of you getting there. Your dreams are tailor made to your soul. Want proof? Ask someone else what their *ideal* looks like, I guarantee it’s wildly different.

3. Confirm these secret wishes and hopes about yourself, to yourself, every day. It’s even more powerful when it comes from you.
Whenever we’re seeking outside of ourselves, we’re really just wanting someone to reflect back to us our own inner knowing. And to be honest, you only really get outside confirmation when you’ve done the inner work to *know* it in yourself already. The best of readers will simply just remind you of this.

The most common reason why we don’t get what we want is that most of don’t actually know what we want. It’s been conditioned out of us and replaced with the wants we were told to have.

So sometimes, when we’re so out of touch with our own wants, the Universe dangles a person in front of you that has one of the things that you’re meant to have too so you can go – shit I want that! It’s a remembering!

It’s the Universe’s way of helping us figure it out! Jealousy, judgment and resenting are signpost FULL OF CLUES about what we truly want and don’t want out of life!
When I started seeing every life experience as a thing that could reach me about my preferences, I stopped feeling so powerless and lost.
So take that ‘negative’ feeling as Divine, keep the message it came to show you about your desires, and don’t slow your path by spending any time judging the person who the Universe used to deliver it to you. If you really want, send them a blessing from afar.
And then bless your own future life, and give thanks for the new clarity you just got given.

May this be the year you show yourself you can be a Projector and kick ass too.

Or in place of Projector, any of the below that you may have misinterpreted as an opponent to success instead of a strength, eg: -Quad Right
-Quiet Manifestor or MG
-Open Ego


Everything in your chart is constructed to make you BIG.
Instead of judging them as reasons you’re not as good or strong as everyone else with your logical mind, leave it open. That’s easier than saying ‘realise it’s a strength’ because I certainly know that sometimes that’s hard. But leave it open and tell the Universe we’re willing to be proven wrong with our self-judgments? Stop clinging to our ‘flaws’? Stop being a voice for why we suck? That we can do (and that’s all we really need to do).

My goals as a non-specific this year:
– to be fearless with sharing my gifts so that humans can understand themselves and others more (ie. not to hold myself back, not question or edit what comes to me, and just to share share share)
– to proactively create joy in my life

Non-specifics: remember that the less you try to refine what it looks like, the better. If there’s a project or outcome you’re particularly set on, try to zoom out and ask yourself what you think that thing is going to give you or others. Then ask for that effect instead and leave the Uni to fill in how it actually unfolds. Trust me, the Universe is a far better designer than we are 😂

Specifics: realise that you’re special enough to have the exact dream that’s in your head, and don’t water it down for no one or no thing. Don’t dismiss it, revere it. It didn’t come from some random place in your head, it was given to you by God and there’s a reason why God put it in your mind’s eye to begin with: because that very dream is something he/she/it is dying to give you, if you’ll embrace it without question or judgment, and with your whole heart.

Life goal – to feel as free as I feel on vacation, in every day life. And not by cutting out any and every possible thing that could cause stress anxiety or tension – I’ve learned that I could quarantine myself in a Petri dish in a lab and still find reasons to feel them, because they’ve been engraved in us as normal tendencies to have.
The REAL freedom I’m aiming for is remembering each time that I am the one creating a negative thought around those ‘stressful’ things, and I can at any moment interrupt that addictive thought train with the truth, which is that NOTHING has control over how I feel except me.

Our world operates on the assumption that a good life doesn’t just come to us – that we have to constantly be controlling, manipulating or managing – life and situations, but mostly other people.
However, for us folks who are tapped in to how others react and feel, the ‘obvious’ controlling of suppressing, brazenly trampling or quashing others isn’t so attractive because we’d be hyper-aware of the negative consequence to the other, the fact that they’d probably not see us so favourably, and we wouldn’t like ourselves so much either.
When you combine that awareness with the belief that other people seeing you as ‘good’ or worthy is what MAKES you good and worthy, you have yourself a people pleaser. Someone who will contort out of their naturally inclined behaviour in order to ensure a favourable reaction from the other.
We go through so much time and energy wastage, which kind of leaves this sucky cloud hanging over life. And when we’re constantly being disingenuous like that we’re for sure getting further away from the self-love thing, even though it’s confusing because on the surface we’re being sweet and nice and ‘doing the right thing’ all the time.
The way out of this is to decide that YOU will be the judge of whether you’re a good or bad person. And not in a woo-woo way, as a new practice where you ask yourself whenever you feel icky after an interaction, did you do or say something with bad intentions? If the answer is yes, you’ve just uncovered your next priority to transform within yourself (by kindly and gently just leaning out of it more and more), and if no, you give yourself a freaking hug and remind yourself that it’s normal that all any of us want is love and belonging and that sometimes we bump up against each other or don’t ‘fit’ perfectly together because we have to learn love and acceptance DESPITE that, not in the absence of it, because that’s how it unconditional.

I wanted to post this today because of the contemplative window of time we’re all in, and for the fact that if we all chose to contort less, man would we have so much more energy and power to soar. Guess we may as well give it a go 🙂 Who’s with me?

Responding for Generators & MGs
Ra Uru Hu, the founder of Human Design, once said: “Generators are the luckiest beings on the planet. Everything is right there for them, all they have to do is respond”.
What he meant, is that you don’t have to do any figuring out what to do next. Guidance, as much as we may try to spiritualise it, is most powerful when it’s physical. It’s all being laid out in front of you by the Universe, like a sushi conveyor belt, and you just have to pick what pleases you. God has billions of pleasures, sights, senses, ways to create and play to offer you, in far better forms that you could ever conceive. All you have to do is keep asking yourself whether you like what’s being put in front of you or not.
Creating your ideal life is a balance between letting the Universe present you with all these options (which is blocked by overthinking it all), and then throwing your energy and passion into the ones that make you feel alive.
Put simply:
Waiting to respond = waiting til you’ve had a positive reaction in your body towards something.
Whether that’s a food, a man, a job or a hobby, big or small, wait for it to excite you and once it has, it’s yours to go get.

Transformational tools don’t inherently hold any power (whether that’s a crystal, or healer, or psych-k, hypnosis, therapy or spells); they only ‘work’ because using them entails us focusing our intention and energy on something we want to change or bring in. Thus they are simply enablers of us using our mind power to get in touch with our wishes. When we infuse them with power, they have power – but it’s also possible to change your thought patterns around something without needing something external to prompt it or make it feel like you’re doing a thing.
And when we do the ritual or the healing or the process without taking responsibilty to think or do something differently than we were before, nothing changes. Lord knows I’ve given my power over to so many modalities in the past hoping they’d alter my life, only for things to coast exactly the same as they were until I remembered I can change my own life in 5 minutes if I am brave enough to get real honest with myself.
To be clear, there’s no better or worse here; I just wanna tell you you have options – I LOVE all the physical rituals I listed at the beginning: they help me focus my intention and they feel good – but I make sure I’m clear that it’s ME who’s making the ritual powerful, not the pretty rocks.